What makes someone hot, left by A.I. or other users go
Confidence — it’s everything.
A good laugh and a great smile.
Passion for something — anything!
The way they treat service workers.
When someone can hold a deep conversation.
Being unapologetically themselves.
When they dance like nobody’s watching.
Kindness. Simple as that.
Intelligence — I love a big brain.
Being emotionally available.
When they make me feel safe.
A little mystery goes a long way.
The way they light up when talking about what they love.
When they remember the little things.
A great voice — talking or singing.
When they can roast me and I can roast them back.
Strong boundaries and clear communication.
How they show up for their friends.
When they can make anything fun.
Curiosity — about the world and about me.
Self-awareness — rare but so attractive.
When they hype other people up.
Confidence in being awkward.
When they own their quirks.
Someone who’s not afraid to call me out — with love.
Big ambition with a bigger heart.
When they’re great with kids.
When they’re passionate about a cause.
Not taking themselves too seriously.
Vulnerability — that’s hot.
A great walk — the way someone moves says a lot.
When they know what they want but aren’t arrogant about it.
When they make eye contact and actually listen.
When they’re always learning something new.
Showing up on time — punctuality is underrated.
When they own their past and their growth.
A voice that calms me down.
When they make others feel seen.
Not caring about trends — just doing their thing.
Quiet confidence — not cocky, just secure.
The way they talk about their family.
Playfulness — someone who can be goofy.
When they’re comfortable being alone.
When they genuinely love what they do.